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THE INTIMATELY U JOURNAL
Real conversations for the parts of life we don't always talk about.
Stories and reflections on rebuilding, self-worth, relationships, work, wellness, and becoming.
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My Story & The Rebuild
Founder stories, lived experience, entrepreneurship, starting over, motherhood, lessons learned, and what rebuilding actually looks like.


The Rebuild — The Part Nobody Talks About After You Leave
Everyone celebrates when you leave. And then they go home. And you're left standing in the middle of your new reality, wondering why it doesn't feel like freedom yet. The phone wouldn't stop. Calls back to back. Texts flooding in. I miss you. I'm sorry. I've changed. Please come back. Over and over until you finally changed the number, and even then, the silence felt louder than the noise did. Because somewhere in the middle of all those "I'm sorrys," a part of you wanted to
Kyla Derry
Jun 146 min read


I Didn't Leave Because I Was Brave
There's a question I used to hate. "Why did you stay so long?" People ask it as if the answer is simple. Like I just needed someone to point at the door. I stayed because I was afraid of being hunted down again like a caged animal who'd made the mistake of running before. I stayed because I didn't know what was on the other side, and the unknown felt more terrifying than the pain I already knew. I stayed because my daughter and I had a sliver of stability, and I was terrified
Kyla Derry
Jun 24 min read
Strength I Didn’t Know I Had: A Young Mother’s Journey Through Loss, Love, and Law
My Journey Begins: A Young Mother Fighting for Survival -At 18, I wasn’t just a teenager. I was a mother with no guidance, no money, and a hungry baby looking up to me for answers I didn’t have. Desperation pushes people to make choices they never imagined—but I had to survive. The Weight of Young Motherhood I was just 18 when I had my first daughter. Unlike many young mothers who lean on their parents for support, my reality was much different. My mother was battling addicti
Kyla Derry
Apr 11, 20255 min read
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